About

Heart Map exists to help people understand themselves before they try to understand someone else.

Heart Map was designed and developed in Melbourne, Australia to help people better understand the relationship patterns influencing who they choose and why.

Why we built it

Most of the relationship advice we encountered was either clinical and inaccessible, or shallow and entertaining. Very little of it helped real people make better decisions about who they were dating, why, and what they kept missing.

Heart Map started as a personal project to answer one question more honestly: why do the same things keep happening?It grew into a tool we wanted to share.

Who it's for

Heart Map is for adults who are dating, between relationships, or thinking about getting back out there — and who'd rather understand their own patterns than be told what type they are.

It's especially useful if you've noticed the same kind of relationship keeps finding you, or you're tired of relying on hope to choose better next time.

What it is — and isn't

Heart Map is a structured self-reflection tool. You answer questions about your relationship history, your values, and how you actually behave — and we write you a personalised report based on what you said.

Heart Map is not therapy, counselling, medical advice, or a clinical assessment. It doesn't diagnose anything. If you're in distress or working through serious mental-health concerns, please reach out to a qualified professional — Heart Map isn't a substitute for that kind of support.

Curious what your Heart Map looks like?